the ex down the road

he has been what i thought was a friend for many years. since those tender teen years we have been friends. i moved here thinking i would make lots of friends and meet people through him. what i didn't know is he lives in his bedroom. he very rarely goes out. when he does he doesn't behave very well. i can understand the untreated forms of ocd. he has who he calls his best friend. her job is to keep all women away from him. she looks at him with moony eyes. at first i thought how good this was for him to have someone. he says he doesn't want her. he just brings her out when he feels women are too close. he seems to like women to stay for a week end and have sex and then leave. when they ask for more he brings out his pitbull. he acts like this isn't true.
i thought his friend would help me to meet people but instead all she said was why don't you move to vermount.
easy come easy go.
the problem?
he keeps sexaully harassing me. i have no interest. he doesn't think he does this but this is what harassers do. they act like it is the objects fault. i don't want to be his sex slave. men like that aren't good in bed. they think porn is a manual for sex. many a time i have thought maybe i should tell him to get a hobby. oh, porn isn't a hobby.
and so he still lives in his bedroom.
this is a warning to anyone who knows someone like this, get away and stay away.